i40iw: Update hw_iwarp_state

i40iw: Update hw_iwarp_state

Update iwqp->hw_iwarp_state to reflect the new state of the CQP
modify QP operation. This avoids reissuing a CQP operation to
modify a QP to a state that it is already in.

Fixes: 4e9042e647ff ("i40iw: add hw and utils files")
Reported-by: Stefan Assmann <sassmann@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Mustafa Ismail <mustafa.ismail@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Shiraz Saleem <shiraz.saleem@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Doug Ledford <dledford@redhat.com>